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And this, he said, is what the Lord requires: to act justly,
love mercy and walk humbly with the Lord, Micah 6:8.
I'm pretty sure that Steven and Steph (not their real names,
including the ones mentioned here) are two of those who will receive God's
abundant blessings—even
miracles—in the days
to come.
Their love story itself is a miracle, and one for the books. If this were a theatre production, you'd be watching three acts.
Their love story itself is a miracle, and one for the books. If this were a theatre production, you'd be watching three acts.
Act 1: Until recently, Steph had consigned herself to a life
of single-blessedness. She and Steven were schoolmates and were quite an item
for seven years. They said temporary goodbyes when Steph left for the US many years back, with
Steven promising to follow after two years. But the two years stretched to ten
so Steph bid her merrily-ever-after-dream goodbye. She was moving on. Her
sister Chai lived with her; so they made the most of their American
dream.
Act 2: Fast forward to 2015. Steph and Chai step on Philippine
soil again, but this time to a woeful scene.
Their younger brother, Arvin, died under tragic circumstances, leaving behind two sons: Jace, four years old, and Nathan, one. Their mom never showed up and was never heard from again—for whatever reason. So their aging grandfather, now a widower, was left to care for the boys when Steph and Chai went back to the US. Though employed full time in the US, the sisters took turns to visit and stay a bit longer, playing surrogate mothers to their nephews.
Their younger brother, Arvin, died under tragic circumstances, leaving behind two sons: Jace, four years old, and Nathan, one. Their mom never showed up and was never heard from again—for whatever reason. So their aging grandfather, now a widower, was left to care for the boys when Steph and Chai went back to the US. Though employed full time in the US, the sisters took turns to visit and stay a bit longer, playing surrogate mothers to their nephews.
Act 3, seventeen years after Steph and Steven said their
goodbyes:
Steven, now a very mature Christian, was by himself in a mall when he espied a young boy. "He looks familiar, parang kamukha ni Arvin," he mused; then followed the boy as he strolled back to another familiar face—Steph's dad!
The next time Steph came home, guess who handed her a bunch
of flowers? This time, she allowed herself to be swept off her feet again.
Steph and Steven tied the knot recently in a quiet but beautiful wedding ceremony conducted by the latter's brother/pastor.
Steph and Steven tied the knot recently in a quiet but beautiful wedding ceremony conducted by the latter's brother/pastor.
Things are looking up that they could now quicken the
process to adopt the kids and prepare for them a home in the US.
Amazing story, huh, about how God "closes a door then
opens a window," borrowing a phrase from the musical play "Joseph the
Dreamer".
I've always wondered why the writer of that song used the word "window" instead of "another door"? This time I understood.
I've always wondered why the writer of that song used the word "window" instead of "another door"? This time I understood.
God allowed Steph and Steven to clearly see His design, a purpose bigger than one's self. It's about sacrificial love and relationships, "acting justly, loving mercy and walking humbly with the Lord."
That's what Christ showed us on the cross.
It will still be an uphill climb for this new couple to
finally become official mom and dad to the boys. Parenting is challenging enough yet they're already deep into it.
We've witnessed a miracle. What's another miracle to Him who
promised to work things out for the good of those who love Him?
I recently watched Steven playing with now two year old
Nathan and my heart was assured: all will be well!
Lord, we lift up to you Steph and Steven. You know who they are
and their situation. We pray that your abundant grace will enable them to
persevere in their new-found status, and You will intervene so that they—with the boys—could now build their home.
A beautiful love story--not only between the couple but among everyone in the family. Redeeming grace--what else could it be?
ReplyDeleteWas thinking of just plain "Steph and Steve"— just like some movie titles, but then the focus is on them. My writing's been held back recently. Hope to resume when I get back my alone time.
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